Monthly Archives: December 2017

Christmas 2017

Christmas started early for one little Junie Buggie. Santa left a fully-assembled “park” in her backyard the evening of the 22nd. To her glorious surprise, it was waiting for her the morning of the 23rd… two whole days before Christmas. She immediately had to get out there and check it out. Much like her daddy, she couldn’t be bothered with putting on pants first.

We ate breakfast at the picnic table under the fort. And she tried out the swings, checked out the slide (but fell flat on her booty the first try and steered clear of it for a few days), and hung from the rings. Jeremy had planned on going to work as an elf to boost morale, and so he showed up to give us goodbye kisses looking like Santa’s helper.

If I only had captured this photo weeks before Christmas instead of a few days before Christmas, it might have ended up serving as our Christmas card.

Once Daddy left, we put on clothes and our jacket and spent a few hours really checking everything out. We spent lots of time on the swings – next to each other as well as with me pushing her way up high in the sky. I was sure Jeremy would not approve of the risky behavior, but she was enjoying every second of it.

We also mastered the rock-climbing wall and used it repeatedly to get into our fort. The babies had to stay in the fort, and I think a few of them ended up  spending the night out there.

Selah June was up fairly late Christmas Eve night. I had wrapping duty, so most of my evening was spent in my bedroom. The nice thing about anticipation of Santa’s visit is that it serves as a great motivator. She ate her dinner and took her bath – both with minimal resistance.

Once she went to bed, we took a few trips up and down the stairs to bring it all out from our bedroom to the fireplace. Jeremy noted that for a kid who was getting her big present a few days before Christmas, she certainly was not hurting for gifts on Christmas Day.

Jeremy actually had to wake her up Christmas morning. She was in our bed, having made the trek upstairs at some point in the night. Jeremy woke up around 6am to make cinnamon rolls, and came to wake her up around 7/7:30.

She was very patient and waited for me to get down the stairs to watch her see all her presents. But then it was a constant flurry of activity and excitement. The lighting was poor, and she didn’t stand still for a second. I didn’t get any great shots…. some video, but not great pictures.

The theme of this year was babies. We LOVE babies. She probably received 4 babies. Some made noises; one was an American Girl Doll; one came with milk and orange juice; and all of them are enjoying a miniature pink crib, highchair, and rocker in the new nursery – SJ’s toy room.

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At Grammy’s house, SJ had a stack of presents to tear through. There were so many moments she wanted to share with Jules, but he was really focused on his own presents. She would open something, and say “Hey Jules! Look at this! A baby, Jules!” And he wouldn’t even hear her. That’s the most difficult part of this particular phase of cousin life. The volume of six young children is high ALL THE TIME. After about an hour of it, you swear you’re going to lose your mind.

Nonetheless, we did keep the kids focused on individuals zones of gifts. They managed to get through all of their gifts at one sitting and without many meltdowns. And then they cleared out and let the adults have a bit of time to open their presents. I think we’re beginning to see a light at the end of the crazy-town children tunnel.

One of her favorite gifts was a Frozen lollipop holder from her stocking. Sometimes it’s the littlest things that captivate their attention and affection.

She also got a doctor’s kit, and it came with such funny stuff. The modern doctor set still comes with a stethoscope, a thermometer, and shots. But it also comes with spectacles and a cell phone. She loved it! She immediately used the phone to call and tell mommy, “No more monkeys jumping on the bed!”

SJ’s Mimi gave her a Calico Critters cottage. It came with some critters and furniture, and Selah June was very excited. It’s so hard to tell kids that they have to wait to open stuff up until they go home. But it was also quickly apparent that the kids were going to fight over opened presents. And SJ was far from innocent in this war over new toys.

Mom’s window seat kid table was a popular space this Christmas. But the kids all lined up on a single side of the table as opposed to on either side. We had to get a picture of the congested silliness.

By the end of dinner, the kids were turning into monster pumpkins. I scarfed down dessert, but then we had to remove Selah June from the setting. She was beside herself from all the stimulation and fatigue.

Hard Days Happen Too

December 19, 2017

Today was really hard. I’m not gonna lie.

We are in the week leading up to Christmas. I’ve worked some fun days into the schedule. Selah June is not in school this week, and I plan to take advantage of the opportunity for quality time. But today we had many repair men scheduled to fix unexpected problems. The downstairs air conditioner broke, so we’ve had no heating downstairs for several days. We just replaced the unit upstairs, so this was not something that we were ready to hear. The roofers finally showed up to fix the leak over the master bedroom. The washing machine stopped draining last night. It’s only about 16 months old. Gag….

So I wasn’t in a great mood and had to rearrange work around these visits. And this came on the heels of us all being sick at the same time. We all went to the doctor between Thursday and Friday. Colds, viruses, respiratory infections… all kinds of junk.

Selah June’s sleep was weird last night after a really long late afternoon nap. So she was in a rare mood today. We have definitely hit up against the “poopy” phase. Every other word is “poop.” And, don’t get me wrong. We did encourage it. At first, it was funny. But now, it’s about as constant as “why.” And Momma is about to lose her mind.

We had a huge fight about taking a shower, and then she immediately crashed out. Sara and I had to talk on stuff, but that didn’t go so well either. Selah June didn’t want to share my attention, and she only wanted to say “poop.” When Sara left, I decided we needed some fresh air. We went to Target, and I pulled into a spot next to the cart rack. Except that I didn’t clear the cart rack. Great…

That was my breaking point, and unfortunately Jeremy talked to me at that inopportune moment. I was not the grownup in the situation. SJ sensed the disturbance in the force and immediately wanted to hold my hand as we walked into the store. She told me she loved me. And she was excited about going to Target and getting into the cart.

Too Cool

December 5, 2017

After she finally woke up, we got ready for school. She had to wear her unicorn sunglasses because they made her “super cool.” She sauntered up to the doors all ready to see her classmates drool over her coolness. She checked herself in and then ran to her class… so excited!

And then…

She stood on the outside of the door covering both of her huge eyeglass eyes hiding from her friends. I opened the door, and she followed me in reluctantly and collapsed on the floor while covering both of her huge eyeglass eyes.

The teachers said, “Those are some pretty cool sunglasses you have, Selah June!” And she just crouched down even further.

We’re still working on our entrance.

Sleeping Beauty

December 5, 2017

Selah June now ends up in our bed most every night. She wakes up at some point, goes potty, and then realizes she’s alone in her room. She makes her way up the stairs and asks for help climbing in the bed on her daddy’s side. Her “spot” is between us, and her pillow is the brown one. Usually she brings a baby or two and her blue blanky. This morning was rare in that I was awake before she was. I couldn’t handle all the sweetness and had to capture it for posterity.

Helping Grammy in the Kitchen

December 3, 2017

We spent the evening over at Grammy and Grandpa’s house, and Selah June had a blast helping Grammy fix dinner. Grammy pulled up the foot stool, and SJ jumped right in with both hands to help make the salad. We all wore our jammies to be super comfy, and Grandpa had a great fire going.

Miss Priss is pretty helpful in the kitchen. I think we probably have a rising chef on our hands.

My Lap Overfloweth

December 6, 2017

As of late, we’re sooooo all about the babies. And everything is a baby. Minnie is a baby, and Mickey is a baby. Our Paw Patrol pups are babies, and our babies are babies. Yesterday, I went to buckle myself in after giving her time to get herself situated in the car… When I turned back to look at her progress, I saw her Jamaican doll buckled in as well as my wallet.

My wallet buckled in.

People keep asking what she would like for Christmas. You can’t go wrong with babies. We’re running a freakin’ daycare over here.

She is good to her babies. She changes them (using REAL diapers) about every 5 seconds. And she needs my help to do it, so she has to come up with creative excuses as to why they need to be changed again so soon. And she feeds her babies… a really convenient excuse for getting extra snacks and treats. And she makes sure they are tucked in bed with lots of covers.

It’s so sweet. I really love that about this age.

Christmas Lights

Saturday, December 2, 2017

We went to see the lights at Bellingrath Gardens last Saturday night. It was the same night as the SEC Championship game in which Georgia and Auburn were playing. Unlike previous years, it was pretty busy with all the Bama fans. Jeremy did his typically off-the-chain job of making every second of the adventure something magical. She wore her Christmas dress. We took Grammy and Grandpa. Her babies were buckled in the backseat. We got there, and he immediately bought her the necklace at the register with LED Christmas lights. Then we got her a wagon for her to ride with her blanket throughout the gardens.

One of the first scenes is the rose garden full of massive butterflies aglow with Christmas lights. It was in full bloom. All the roses looked and smelled spectacular. Jeremy asked SJ if she liked the flowers. And in typical form, she replied:

“Dad, I did not come to look at flowers.”

 

Running a Professional Practice These Days

Friday, December 1, 2017

Selah June has been really into playing doctor. So she’s all about giving us shots. But she also gets distracted. So, after telling Jeremy that she wanted him to pretend with her, and she was going to give her a shot, he said: “Where’s my shot?”

To which she replied:

“It will be ready in just a minute. You have to wait for your turn, Daddy.”

Christmas Is In the Air!

Selah June is getting really excited about Christmas. They are definitely talking at school about Santa and presents and the Christmas tree. She is super excited about her tree at home and helped me decorate it from start to finish.

It started off benign enough….  She saw a few tea cup sets and baby dolls. She saw some legos, and she saw some paw patrol toys. “Sure… Santa can definitely bring you all those presents,” we said. The only problem is that now everything she sees she wants and insists that Santa brings it to her for Christmas. And… we are trying to surprise her with a swing set built in her backyard by Christmas morning, and we’re afraid that she’s not going to be surprised and instead will be pissed. I’m hoping that that’s not the case. It might come a little early… maybe the 22nd. But now I’ve gotta get some presents for the tree as well because she doesn’t have any sense of relative cost. (YIKES!!! THIS IS GOING TO BE AN EXPENSIVE YEAR!)

Here she is in an adorable dress from her Grandma. She received two. The other one is grey with Santa. But this one had to get on her body immediately! I love this picture. It perfectly captures her innocence, humor, spirit, love of the season, and pure joy. This is Selah June 2017.

 

 

Saturday Mornings = Breakfast With Daddy

Jeremy and SJ have a tradition of getting up early on Saturday mornings (before Mommy comes close to thinking about waking up) and sneaking out of the house to go get breakfast. It used to reliably be doughnuts. Now, they’ve graduated to full-on breakfast at Grover’s. SJ loves the hash browns covered with cheese. It’s pretty remarkable how much she chows down on the stuff.

And they often pick up a toy or fun activity. Today they brought home glitter glue to make slime.