Monthly Archives: August 2016

Living Colorfully

Sunday, August 28, 2016

Selah Juney has developed a love of music and “creative time” at school. We knew that she loved all things musical, but her affinity for coloring has only intensified since starting at St. Luke’s. When we went to Grammy’s this weekend, she had a spectacular set of “colors” (also known as crayons and markers). Selah June loved all the options and the beautiful clear plastic cylindrical container that held them all.

Our markers are all dried up because we like to take all the tops off.  Mommy and Daddy decided to take Selah June on an adventure to get some more colors. We went to Target expecting a good selection, and they had the exact same set!!!!image

Here she was just seconds before making our discovery. She was on a clear mission.  This little cuckoo bird knew what she wanted and blazed a trail right through Target to find it.image

Then we had to look for some good paper!image

As soon as we got home, she wanted to get out her “colors.” We had to recreate the perfect coloring experience we had at Grammy’s house.

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At first she wanted to have several markers available without their caps at the same time. But Daddy put a quick stop to that.image

This is definitely her favorite thing at this moment. She even likes to work on collaborative masterpieces, claiming anything someone else draws as her own and sometimes even allowing contributions to her papers as well.image

I love that she loves to color. I can’t wait to spend lazy days being artsy and crafty together. And I can’t wait to decorate our home with all of the eclectic “projects” those special moments create.

Weekend Reading and Writing

Sunday, August 28, 2016

It has really been a rough week.  I can tell that I’m emotionally drained because my reactions to others are about as whiny and huffy as Selah June’s when she doesn’t get exactly what she wants.  I feel like all of my emotional intelligence checked out somewhere along the way this week, and what’s left is just moody mess…  Maybe that should be a word.  Building on moodiness, we should describe the result as moodimess.

I ordered a few books a week ago, and two of them arrived the other day.  One of them is super interesting.  It’s’ called A Theology of the Built Environment.  It’s by a theologian who certainly knows his stuff about the liberal arts.  His writing draws from philosophy, history, architecture, art, and anthropology.

Tim Gorringe, the author, is blowing my mind.  Here is just one little quote: ” For Paul the temple is not a building but the community living in the world.  There cannot, therefore, be an idea of the profane as the sum total of common life outside the sphere of the holy.” What??  He is taking on the polarity of our language and our understanding as private/public and sacred/secular.  Here is more.  “If Eliade’s two realms mean the de-sanctification of the everyday then the implications of secularization, by contrast, as Richard Niebuhr rightly observed, is the sanctification of all things.  What we learn from Scripture is that every day is the day that the Lord has made; every nation is a holy people called by him into existence in its place and time and to his glory; every person is sacred, made in his image and likeness.”

I’ve often tried to articulate my motivation for studying the varied subjects of democracy, community, architecture, public space, and civic engagement.  Right now particularly I’m thinking through this question because I’m at the end of one major project and charting my course for the next one.  What do I want to read?  What do I want to explore?  What might I have to write?  Everything I have produced so far has stemmed from personal experience coupled with real world observation and scientific inquiry.  I don’t anticipate that the next project will be any different, but my experiences are shifting.  I now experience everything as a mother of a very small child.  The questions attracting me at the moment involve the rhetorical statements of children’s television shows and movies, the value and sustainability of an early-education model that pre-supposes a single-income family structure, or the potential impact of new technology on parent-child attachment and children’s emotional and social development.  Those are obviously nowhere near my academic training.

Even now, I really see space for work that identifies the core values, the foundational infrastructure, and the communal activities that undergird democratic life.  I don’t know that democracy is inherently a good thing, but I know that we assume that it is.  I think that we make design choices that shape our built environment and that environment then houses our community activities.  I know that we have had major shifts in individual (and societal) behavior driven by emerging digital technologies.  We have no idea how these will impact our relationships and our longterm psychological health.  What might these changes bring about for our political lives — at the level of the street, the neighborhood, the city, the state, and the nation?  I think that’s where my head is right now.

Selah June’s been taking a good afternoon nap, so I actually have had 15 minutes to read and think.

A Full Day

Thursday, August 25, 2016

I picked up SJ at St. Luke’s just after 1:30. They were playing outside, and she was about worn out.  She made sure to say “bye” to Miss Ceara and all the kids, and we went inside to get her bag.  Right next to her bag was another little girl’s bag with a folded pink blanket on top.  “Thats’s Emma’s blanky,” she very clearly said to me.

Not to be confused with Selah June’s blanket.  Apparently, this has been a clear territorial division between Selah June and Emma.  We have worked on mine and yours in our first few weeks at St. Luke’s. We might not quite think clearly about the reciprocal nature of “share,” but we do clearly understand ownership…at least when it comes to blankets.

She wanted milk, and that could not be secured until we got home, but she was out cold within the first two minutes of our drive.

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She slept hard for 3 solid hours. She woke up just before Daddy came home with sandwiches. She was so funny at dinner, wanting to play with all of my “money” – which ended up being bills.  She thought the faces and “a,b,c’s” were interesting and got a kick out of telling us that it was not Mommy’s money.  “Noooooo….. It’s Selah Juney’s money.”  And then she started saying it was Aaron’s money and that Andrew Jackson looked like Mommy….  ?

After dinner we we went on a walk.  Of course we had to stop at Miss Cindy’s house where the rocks are.  That’s our favorite thing about walks.

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Then Miss Cindy drove up!!!!

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You can see that we spent a while there.

We met a new family on the final loop back to our house. They moved in just a few days after we did. They have two kids just a few years older than SJ. We hit it off pretty well, and it’s good to know yet another set of people in the neighborhood.  We live on a pretty good street.

We stopped to see Buddy the Cat. Selah June and Mommy walked up the driveway and talked to Buddy, but the the puppies inside started barking, and SJ decided it was scary.  But she also told Buddy to “go inside the house!” It was definitely a moment.

Quick Note

Tuesday, August 23, 2016

I have much to say, but it has been a miserable few days.  There are people in my life with much bigger issues, and I am praying for them without ceasing.

Selah June wanted me to get her out of her crib this morning.  It made my day.  She also nodded when I asked her if she knew that I loved her very much and she nodded when I asked her if she loved me.  My mind is rattled, but my heart is full.

Daddy Got Baptized (Again)

Sunday, August 21, 2016

We joined East Brent a few weeks ago.  I moved my letter from Hillcrest, and Jeremy moved his letter from McFarlin Methodist.  EB requires that church members profess the faith and be baptized by immersion.  Jeremy visited with Wade about it, and he felt very good about the “meaning” of his public demonstration of faith through immersive baptism.

We wanted Grammy to be able to make it, so we waited until she had enough mobility after her knee replacement to attend the service comfortably.  And she did some sneaky work behind the scenes to invite all of the Jones sibling families to be there in support of our little family unit and Jeremy’s public step to join this church family.

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Precious Satie Isabella wanted to wear her most beautiful dress for the occasion.  It was pink with lots of pearls around the neckline.  And her shoes were fabulous.  Sebastian looks thrilled, doesn’t he?

Jeremy joked with Wade that the two of them were going to test the limits of the “bathtub” — two big guys making waves.  Wade didn’t realize how accurate that premonition was until they both climbed in.

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After church, we all went to Dickie’s for BBQ.  Selah June was very happy to get to sit next to Satie.

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You can kind of see Satie’s dress.  I wish I had a better picture.sunday lunch

She’s getting to be such a big girl.

A New Adventure

Saturday, August 20, 2016

Jeremy has been wondering about the new Sky Zone trampoline park in town.  For an adventure he made a plan for us to take SJ for an hour to check it out!  Aaron was in a war machine tournament, so Jessica and the kids joined us for kicks and giggles (literally).  The kids had a blast.  Poor Satie had to play in the toddler zone in order for us to have all three of them in one place, but she didn’t seem to mind.  She had a blast.

Here we are waiting for 10 minutes until our scheduled hour of play. It’s impossible to get somebody to smile for the camera.

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Here’s the pre-play excitement.  You can feel it in the air…

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It was hilarious watching her just run like a crazy person across all of the trampolines, only stopping periodically to make sure no one was having more (or at least a different kind of) fun than she was having.

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We slowed down after about 45 minutes and found a chair to claim while watching the action.

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I think we’ll be going there again…

Just a Day in the Life of Selah June

Thursday, August 18, 2016

I mentioned that Jeremy’s spent quite a bit of time this week at the house to facilitate the installation of new appliances.  One of the men Lowe’s sent to the house recognized the address because he actually built the front porch and the stone fireplace for the previous owner.  He happened to have this pic on his phone.  Isn’t that CRAZY??

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Here’s the house we bought by comparison….

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I just think the renovation is really remarkable.

Selah Juney rode with Mommy to school this morning because Daddy went into work super early so that he could be back at the house for the Lowe’s people. I just couldn’t stand the cuteness in the back seat.

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She was in a super silly mood.  Here she is messing with me by speaking so softly you cannot make out what in the world she is saying.

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After school, we took a nap and then spent some time on the front porch because it was absolutely beautiful outside.  The light was catching her hair so perfectly, I just had to take a picture.

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And then I noticed that little hand on her hip. She’s just surveying her land….waiting for Buddy the Cat to make a late afternoon appearance.

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We made an impromptu plan for dinner with Grammy and Grandpa – soups, sandwiches, and salads at Panera before ice-cream.  Selah June was a fan of the plan.  Here she is telling us exactly what she wants.

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Treasured Talks

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Wednesday, August 17, 2016

She is getting sooooo communicative. While in the car, she tells me to put my seatbelt on, to go to Grandpa’s house, to get her French fries, to look at the motorcycle, to take her to play with Satie, and so on and so on. She kicks my seat with her “stinky feet.” She tells me about her boogers and says they’re “yummy” to gross me out.

And we talk about our day.  I ask if she’s ready to go see the kids, and she talks about the park. We cover what was packed for lunch and whether she ate all of it.  And she thinks through what we’re going to do after we wake up from nap time.

It’s really hard to be content with the short mornings preparing for our day and the afternoon naps that bleed into moody evenings.  I know that some of her best hours are being spent at St. Luke’s, and it makes me sad.  It’s a blessing that she really enjoys it.  And the schedule has been much more manageable.  But the guilt is still there.  Jeremy’s feeling a bit of the work/life balance crunch this week because Lowe’s has been coming to the house for days running to install appliances. It’s hard to claim a full day’s work when you’re only on site for 5 hours of the day.

Grammy’s doing okay.  The recovery is taking a long time.  She is tired of doing the same thing every single day. And Dad is wearing out.  She was able to get to 90 degrees at physical therapy, but it wasn’t pretty.

One day at a time…

Night with Daddy

Tuesday, August 16, 2016

I got her to wear some shoes that I bought her a while ago because I thought they were so super cute.  By the end of the day, they had given her some little emerging blisters.  Great day at school, but a little testy with Daddy at home.  Mommy had a dinner with department chairs and was gone most of the evening.  She didn’t particularly care for the change in routine.

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Dot Dot Dot Dot Dot Dot Dot

Monday, August 15, 2016

Jeremy realized just how much SJ gets excited about going to play at Satie’s house and that she has been mostly taking naps while there because of our new schedule.  So he really wanted to let her play for a while after her nap with Satie and Sebastian before scooping her up to bring her home.  Jess was generous enough to feed our whole clan even though her night already included feeding Dan.

The girls had a ton of fun playing together, even though little Satie wasn’t feeling so great.

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Satie and Selah June